The Year That Was 2012
Despite what I went through last year, I think I never lost that smile.
January
- My life changed forever
January 28, 2012 will remain the saddest day in my life, This was the day we lost our beautiful and talented son, Keith Ashley. He was 11.
February
- In search of that Solace
I can't remember ever feeling so depressed until the day I left my family in the Philippines. I asked so many questions and I felt like I needed to find the answers straight away. I wanted to know why God took my son. At that time, I was in desperate need of comfort. It was as if my husband, my family and my friends were not enough. A random trip, or shall I say retreat at a friend's house in Oxfordshire paved way to my recovery.
After trying on several things to make me feel better, I found myself writing open letters to my son. Honestly, this has given me more comfort than anything else. I have been writing to Keith everyday since I started this blog. Some people may find it weird, but this is what's helping me. And I know somehow, Keith gets to read my letters (or so I wish).
March
- Visit from friends
My friends Z, A and MJ visited London.
April
- A run for Keith Ashley
I did my first official 10k run in Bristol in April last year. My boy truly inspired me to do the things that I thought I could never do. One day, I would like to do something bigger for him in order to keep his legacy. He is too good to be forgotten.
May
- More time with friends
Apart from hanging out with my good friend M, in May I started spending more time with my Adings in London. H took me on my first trip to a London bar.
June
- The Queen's Diamond Jubillee
We wanted to be a part of another history, so we went (well, at least we tried) to watch the parade but couldn't get through as there were a lot of people and they closed some of the places. But it was still a day well spent with people we consider family.
July
- My Birthday Month
A trip to Bologna and The Cinque Terre was a birthday gift.
Bologna
Cinque Terre
On my birthday, we went on a day trip to Porto Venere and sunset date on top of the mountain overlooking the village of Manarola.
August
- K Lighter Month
August 17 was Keith's first birthday in heaven and to celebrate it, I asked my family and friends to make that day a Keith Lighter Day by doing things that Keith would have done or would normally do. I was overwhelmed by the support that my friends and family from all over the world have given me on this difficult day. It was indeed a K Lighter Day!
It was also in August when we went to back New York. This trip to New York is actually the best for me as I was able to spend more time with family and friends. We also went on a couple of day trips.
Boston
Also this month, I made one of the biggest decisions I have ever made in my life- to leave Bristol for good. I finally found the courage to leave my comfort zone and face whatever the challenges the Big City may bring. It was August 22 when I formally left my job at the Bristol Heart Institute as a Nurse Practitioner.
September
- A new beginning, A new challenge
Few months before September, I went for a job at St. Thomas' in London. I was not expecting to be offered the job because I don't think I was that serious about it. I was just curious about what London has to offer and there you go, I had one of the best job offers ever. It was my first interview in London and I was blessed to be successful first time.
October
- Looking for Claude
Since the day I asked Keith who inspired him to paint and he told me it was Claude Monet, it has always been my dream for him to see his Lolo Monet's garden in Giverny, France. It's just a shame that I was not able to fulfill this dream. This was a very emotional visit as I knew that Keith would have loved it there. I visited the garden for Keith and all I had with me was his memory and his favourite toy, Meowmeow.
November
- Pumpkin Carving
Our first Halloween in London with my good friend M and her family and some random trick or treat-ers.
December
- It was Merry after all
Because of what happened to Keith, I was not really thinking about Christmas at all. In fact we didn't have any Christmas tree or any decors at home because I wasn't feeling it. But people close to our hearts made it possible for us to at least have a merry December.
-Pre Christmas dinner with our Adings
- Dinner with our Manangs and Manongs
- Christmas Day with M's family
-Cycling around London on Christmas Day
- Boxing Day dinner at Manang V's house
It was indeed a roller coaster 2012 for me. Although a part of me will be missing forever, I know that there are still things that I can certainly look forward to this year. And now that I have an Angel who will watch over me from heaven, I know I will be alright. Here's hoping for a K Lighter 2013!
Tintin x
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